Book Study....When Wall Flowers Dance

Here is a synopsis of the book:
When Wallflowers Dance By Angela Thomas
When we were two, we were no longer babies-we were becoming little girls. And when we were thirteen, we were leaving childhood behind, becoming young women. But, somewhere along the way, we stopped becoming. We became "un-women." Wallflowers who are just breathing and smiling and blending in to stay out of the way.